worriedAlthough I try to avoid being a me-too blogger, today is a bit different. I too was graced by the spammy email from the now notorious Beth Brody of Brody PR.

I’ll be honest, I have kind of enjoyed how other bloggers and journalists have been citing an “A-List” of bloggers and journalists who Brody PR targeted with the “[Digitalbrand] New Social Media Marketing for Small Business e-book” email.

This email was sent to a bunch of people using the CC field instead of the BCC field. This is not the first time something like this has happened….and it won’t be the last.

So, what exactly am I going to bring to the conversation? Good question.

Here’s the answer: Perspective.

At least once in our career we have all made a similar mistake…and maybe two. After all, there’s no better teacher than personal experience right? The only problem is that Beth made her mistake today. On a slow news day. A day when many people had time to blog about it. Oh and she sent the email to a bunch of bloggers and journos who could (and did) quickly jump on the read-write-web and blast her. And holy smokes did they blast her.

Here’s a list of some of people who have written about it:
Jennifer Leggio – Public Relations Fail: A lesson and a rant
Ken Wheaton – PR, Email, Social Media: FAIL
Todd Defren – Bad PR Works
Chris Abraham – I would have appreciated an apology
Rachel Kay – Crisis Communications for the PR Firm
Jacob Morgan – The PR Agency of Satan
Cydney Wuerffel – No One’s an Expert, but Everyone’s a Critic
Ari Herzog - More Proof Why PR is about People
TechCrunch – What You’re Doing Part 348 – Complete and Utter PR Fail
Douglas Karr – When to Fire Your Public Relations Firm
Chris Lake – 15 Savage Mistakes Commonly Made by PR Folks
Nick O’Neil - How a Single Email Killed a PR Firm
Frank Strong – No wonder the PR Industry has a bad rap
Mike Bawden – PR pile-on
John Sternal – How Not To Pitch The Media

The reason this issue went everywhere in social media was because some people on the email list started replying to all, starting with Donna Maria (who was actually interested in the ebook), then Shel Israel replied to all, then Trey Yeatts asked everyone to stop replying to all….after these exchanges the flood gates opened, the swearing began, the insults flew and Brodygate was now underway and in full swing. It was time to grab some popcorn and enjoy the show…or train wreck.

I’m not really one to rock the boat, but I am curious how many of those who blogged about Brodygate: The Great PR Flub of 2009 took the time to reach out to Beth and ask her what happened. Maybe get her perspective or a comment. I can’t imagine it was very many.

Or did we all just login to our blogs, write away and post a damning blog….like Jacob Morgan whose blog post called Brody PR – The Agency of Satan. Seriously people? Does Satan need a PR Agency? Interestingly, Morgan’s post has been picked up by Social Media Today and is being Tweeted like crazy.

Earlier today I sent off a note to Beth and asked her for a comment. I have now found out that her “personal” apology to me was anything but (this apology has appeared verbatim on blogs all over the place):

Hi Al,

I created a list of social media experts who might be interested in reviewing a new guide to social media for small biz. I inadvertently put the list name in the cc: box, rather than the bcc: box. A few folks must have hit the “reply all” button, rather than clicking on the “unsubscribe link” at the bottom, which started a stream of spam. Please accept my personal apology, albeit a little late in the day, since I was trying to remove everyone who wanted to be unsubscribed from the list immediately.

Regards,
Beth

I had hoped to be able to write a blog post that could come close to defending Beth, but I have had to come up a little short. I fully admit that most any of us could have made this mistake (okay, maybe not). Most of us made a similar mistake years ago. But in the end, it’s not that big of a deal. Generally, when I receive emails like this, I use my delete key. I think several bloggers have over-stepped and made more of this issue than it really is. Some went way over the line.

Yes, she screwed up. Her strategy was poor, her approach was poorer, but then no fewer than 30 people replied to all (so I think fault can be spread out a little bit).

On top of all of these issues, Beth did not stand up and admit her mistake very quickly. She lacked authenticity and openness. This isn’t all that surprising considering her Web site was created in 2003, there’s no blog, I couldn’t find her on Twitter and her LinkedIn profile has one connection. Oh well.

Her lack of social media presence doesn’t mean she doesn’t know what she’s doing. She really should. Maybe she could have taken some cues from Rachel Kay and her post: Crisis Communications for the PR Agency.

Beyond this, we all need to remember that we are all people and we want to be treated like people. Blogger relations is simply a different bag. Mass-email pitches don’t work well for traditional journalists and they certainly don’t work for bloggers…as seen today.

In the end, I don’t think Beth should sweat it too much. I don’t think “she ruined her career in front of millions of people” like on Twitterer suggested. The impact of this issue might be pretty small. However, she certainly won’t make the same mistake again….and hopefully no one else will.

Now, let’s see if that eBook is worth all of this trouble.

**Update – Thurs., 8.20 @ 9am – As I have seen more and more posts spill out across the blogosphere, it has become clear that this, like many other PR flubs is helping to damage the credibility of the PR industry as a whole. This worries me significantly. When will we as an industry stop shooting ourselves in the foot? All I can say is that this isn’t how I operate and this isn’t how many of us operate. So, please don’t drag the entire PR industry down under the bus with you.